Today, I completed the required readings for the week. I found them all very interesting. When I first learned these concepts in psychology during my B.Ed program, I studied them because I had to—but I didn’t fully understand how they connected to real classroom experiences. Now that I’ve been teaching for ten years, these ideas resonate much more deeply.

I teach in a public school, and each day brings a wide range of challenges. Not only are we educating students academically, but we’re also supporting them socially, emotionally, and behaviorally. Every child is at a different place, and meeting them where they are can be very complex. Some years, the range of abilities and needs is so wide that I find myself inventing new strategies on the spot. Other years, the range is more manageable, and I can teach concepts more uniformly.

When I think about the question above and consider which learning theory best aligns with my teaching, I realize that it often depends on the student. Each learner is different, and what works for one may not work for another. That said, if I had to choose the theory that aligns most closely with my general approach, I would pick constructivism—even though it’s a hard word to spell!

I relate to constructivism because it emphasizes how learning is shaped by prior experiences. Students are not blank slates—newborns are, to some degree, but even they are influenced by factors like genetics, birth conditions, and early environments. In the classroom, I see how each student carries their own “backpack” of life experiences that influence how they learn.

That said, I also believe behaviorism—especially rewards and consequences—can be highly effective for certain students. For some, this kind of structure and motivation really works.

In public school, we teach students who are at vastly different developmental levels. Some struggle with serious mental health issues and can only absorb small amounts of learning at a time. Others, like some Grade 4 students I’ve taught who are unable to read due to severe learning disabilities, require creative and individualized approaches. These students often have to work harder on tasks that others may find easy, which can be discouraging.

I once had a student who was bright and sweet, but the moment a task pushed her slightly beyond her comfort zone, she would react with major disruptions—throwing objects, screaming, slamming things. For her, emotional regulation was the main barrier to learning. She needed a different kind of support before she could be motivated to learn.

It would be so much easier if all children were at the same level and equally motivated to learn—but that’s not reality. Over time, I’ve learned when to push and when to hold back. It’s about setting achievable expectations based on each child’s capacity at a given moment.

Ultimately, I believe we need to understand what’s in each child’s “backpack” (a nod to constructivism) to figure out what kind of learning path will work for them. As educators, we also need to recognize that doing our best is enough. We must take care of ourselves so that we can show up recharged each day and keep trying.